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It looks like Nathan Gallagher and Gael Cameron are sailing on some choppy waters. The couple has had an on-again, off-again relationship since they met on Season 9 of Below Deck Mediterranean.

However, things seemed to be looking up after the couple welcomed a son named Kayden in June 2025. Cameron also made several appearances on Season 11 of Below Deck Med as Nathan took on the position of bosun.

Sadly, things have taken a dark turn for the new parents, as court documents show that an “apprehended violence application” was filed in New South Wales, Australia, involving the couple.

According to the case, which was filed in 2025, the application will be heard in court on the morning of September 1, 2026. It is not known whether it was filed by Cameron or Gallagher, although it seems the AVO was filed by police on behalf of Cameron.

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“An ‘Apprehended Violence Application,’ or AVO, is a formal request made to a court to protect a person from somebody they believe could cause them harm,” Reality Tea wrote.

This news comes amid rumors that the couple had split. Eagle-eyed fans noticed that Cameron no longer followed Gallagher on social media, and her Instagram is clear of any photos of her baby daddy.

Fans of Below Deck Med were not suprised by the split or the court filing, as the tension between the couple was very obvious on the latest season of the Bravo reality series.

“I figured they weren’t together but didn’t realize it was that bad…. now I feel even worse for everyone that’s been asking or talking about him to Gael,” one person commented before another added, “Not surprised, his anger issues were peeking through a lot in this last season.”

A third chimed in, “I knew it. Always has given me bad vibes.” Yikes!

It could be argued that The Who was, perhaps, one of the angriest of the British Invasion bands. Beyond the smashing of instruments and trashing of hotel rooms, The Who gave a voice to millions of disaffected, disenchanted teens of the time with songs like “My Generation” and “Substitute” in the ’60s…and they were still feeling pretty fed up in the ’70s.

In fact, one of The Who’s most enduring classics, “Won’t Get Fooled Again,” was actually inspired by an altercation that took place at Woodstock, according to Far Out.

During The Who’s set on the second day of the historic festival, activist Abbie Hoffman barged onstage and grabbed the microphone. While the rumors that Pete Townshend hit Hoffman with his guitar have never been confirmed, the musician made it clear that he didn’t want to be used as a political platform.

I wrote ‘Won’t Get Fooled Again’ as a reaction to all that,” Townshend told Creem in 1982. “Leave me out of it: I don’t think you lot would be any better than the other lot! All those hippies wandering about thinking the world was going to be different from that day. As a cynical English arsehole, I walked through it all and felt like spitting on the lot of them and shaking them and trying to make them realize that nothing had changed and nothing was going to change.”

The lyrics of “Won’t Get Fooled Again” were the product of Townshend’s societal frustrations:

There’s nothing in the street / Looks any different to me / And the slogans are effaced, by-the-bye / And the parting on the left / Is now the parting on the right / And the beards have all grown longer overnight

I’ll tip my hat to the new Constitution / Take a bow for the new revolution / Smile and grin at the change all around / Pick up my guitar and play / Just like yesterday / Then I’ll get on my knees and pray / We don’t get fooled again / Don’t get fooled again / No, no

The last line, ranked by Ultimate Classic Rock as the #1 Top Classic Rock Lyric of All Time, summed it all up:

Meet the new boss / Same as the old boss

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Decades later, “Won’t Get Fooled Again” is just as relevant as ever, if not more so. In a 2025 interview with Stephen Colbert, Townshend singled “Won’t Get Fooled Again” out as his song that was “most applicable to the modern world.”

“Our leaders are never any good,” he said. “And when people try to tell us who to vote for, we always don’t feel quite right about that, so I wrote this song called ‘Won’t Get Fooled Again.’ As Bob Dylan said, ‘Don’t follow leaders, watch the parking meters.’ It’s a comment on the fact that the people we put in power always seem to end up breaking their promises. And that’s not directed at anybody today, but everybody there’s ever been. Politicians promise stuff, and they have their fingers crossed behind them. They know that they can’t deliver some of the stuff that they promise.”

“I was being bullied in ’72 by a bunch of hippies who said, ‘Pete, the revolution is coming and you’ve got to get behind it,'” Townshend continued, adding, “No, I won’t be part of your revolution. I think the revolution, if it comes, won’t need me to write for it.”

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Dancing With The Stars‘ Ezra Sosa is sharing his wishes for season 35 of the ABC reality series.

In a recent interview People, the pro dancer shared which of his colleagues he thinks deserves a real shot to win the upcoming season.

“I just want to see Pasha [Pashkov] in the finale, and Britt [Stewart],” Sosa said. “There’s so many people that haven’t gotten the chance to be in the finale that I really hope they just get a front-runner so that we can see how they can truly shine as a pro.”

Sosa’s comments come shortly after he shared a video to TikTok where he pointed out how some DWTS pros consistently get paired up with frontrunners every season. Pashkov has only appeared in the finale once during his seven season tenure, while Stewart, who joined the show as a pro in 2020, has made the semifinals twice.

“We’re coming into that time of year where pros are starting to get calls for next season. In my opinion, I don’t believe there is a good or a bad partner on Dancing With the Stars. I believe you’re paired with that person for a reason,” Sosa said in the since-deleted video.

“It’s not about the professional. It’s about giving that celebrity the best experience ever,” he continued. “But what I want more than anything is for the pros who don’t necessarily get front-runners to have them this season. I want to see them shine. I want to see them have that glorious moment. I want to see them in the finale. I want to see them with the mirrorball because they deserve it.”

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“I also think it’d be really refreshing to see pros in the finale that haven’t been there before, because when you hit that finale, and you see that freestyle, you are seeing a pro’s true creative capability,” he added.

Sosa also noted that he doesn’t need the “best” partner, as he already had that with Olympic gymnast Jordan Chiles last season, but that he wouldn’t complain if he ended up with someone naturally talented.

“I’m wanting it for those who haven’t really had the opportunity yet. I really want this to happen for them,” Sosa concluded.

So far, the only season 35 pairing revealed is Jimmy Kimmel Live! sidekick Guillermo Rodriguez and reigning DWTS champion Witney Carson.

Three other contestants—Summer House‘s Ciara Miller, Love Island‘s Maura Higgins, and the Savannah Bananas‘ Jackson Olson—have been confirmed for the show, but their partnerships won’t be revealed until later.

As for the rest of the cast, Giada De Laurentiis, Taylor Hanson, Harry Shum Jr., and Tyler Cameron are among the names rumored to be competing, but nothing has been officially confirmed by ABC.

Dancing with the Stars airs returns on Tuesday, Sept. 15. on ABC and Disney+ and streams next day on Hulu. The full cast will be revealed on Wednesday, Sept. 2 on Good Morning America.

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British filmmaker John Irvin died Thursday, August 11, at 86 years old. He is known for directing projects such as Hamburger Hill, Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy, and Ghost Story.

Irvin’s producers confirmed his death. They shared that he died peacefully in his sister-in-law’s UK home with his family.

The three-time BAFTA Award nominee was known for his versatility. Throughout his decades-long career, he created over 30 films that ranged from TV shows to documentaries to independent films.

In 2021, Roel Haanen shared that “Not many filmmakers directed both Fred Astaire and Patrick Swayze. Or followed up a tender, thoughtful film written by Harold Pinter with an Arnold Schwarzenegger action flick. But John did …”

The 1987 war film Hamburger Hill is regarded as one of the most accurate portrayals of war. It starred Don Cheadle, Dylan McDermott, Michael Boatman, Steven Weber, and Courtney B. Vance.

Irvin was born in Newcastle upon Tyne, England, on May 7, 1940. He went to the London Film School and graduated in the 1950s.

By the 1960s, he had already made several documentaries, including the 1967 short Mafia No!, which followed Italian social activist Danilo Dolci. The film was nominated for a BAFTA Award for Best Short Film.

“When I did my documentaries, I would have dealings with the security services from time to time but that was MI6 not MI5,” Irvin said about his time working on a documentary about the North Yemen War, according to Variety.

“When I came back from Yemen, where I shot a documentary on the Civil War I was debriefed,” he continued. “There wasn’t much I could tell them, but I was never part of that world or paid. I was far too left-wing, for a start, but was anti-apartheid, anti-war, anti-nuclear. They were probably well aware of my leftwing activities, so I was certainly not involved in any hanky-panky.”

In the 1970s, he pivoted to television. This is when he worked on shows like Tinker Tailor Soldier, which earned him a Primetime Emmy Award for Outstanding Limited Series.

In the 1980s and 1990s, he was working with A-list stars like Swayze in Next of Kin and Schwarzenegger in Raw Deal.

Irvin married Sophie Litchfield in 1970. She died of cancer in 1991. The couple had three children: Emilie, Luke, and Amy Irvin, who survive him.

It was hard to flip open a magazine, drive down a billboard-filled highway or watch TV without coming across a SlimFast ad in the 1990s. Ever wonder, “What exactly happened to SlimFast?”

Since you may not have heard of the brand in a while, allow us to jog your memory:

“SlimFast is a weight-management brand best known for portion-controlled meal-replacement shakes,” Johannah Katz, RD, a registered dietitian, tells Parade. “It’s traditional ‘1-2-3 Plan’ recommends one regular meal, two SlimFast meal replacements and three snacks each day. The program is designed to make calorie reduction easier by simplifying meal decisions and portion sizes.”

There’s been a lot of blowback about fad diets lately (not complaining), and SlimFast often gets lumped in with them. But Katz says its place in diet history is nuanced.

“Meal replacements can be a legitimate weight-management tool,” she says.

Katz points to one review suggesting that programs incorporating meal replacements produced greater weight loss after one year than diets, especially when they included ongoing support.

“However, that does not mean SlimFast is uniquely effective or that everyone needs a branded shake-based plan to lose weight,” she explains.

Hold up—Is SlimFast even still around? Where can you find it today, and can it become popular again? Registered dietitians take a trip down memory lane, look ahead and answer the question, “Whatever happened to SlimFast?” Go inside the rise, decline and bounce-back prospects for the diet brand that dominated the ’90s.

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What Is SlimFast?

SlimFast is a weight-loss and meal replacement brand that was founded in 1977.

“They make ultra-processed ready-to-drink diet shakes, treats and dry mixes,” explains Eleana Kaidanian, RD, CDN, CPT-WFS, a registered dietitian and the owner of Long Island Nutritionist. “Their products are meant as meal replacers to encourage weight loss.”

She notes that the SlimFast product line originally consisted only of diet shakes, but they began offering meal bars in the mid-1990s. Additionally, Katz says the brand expanded to frozen meals and desserts.

Nowadays, Kaidanian shares that the SlimFast Plan includes two SlimFast meal replacements, three 100-calorie snacks and one “sensible” 500-600-calorie meal per day. The SlimFast website claims the plan is “clinically proven to offer a weight loss of between 1-2 pounds per week.”

“Their ‘plan’ allows 1,200 calories per day for women and 1,600 for men,” she adds.

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How Did SlimFast Get So Popular?

Kaidanian states that SlimFast reached its peak popularity in the 1980s and 1990s.

“Television commercials made it a household brand,” she says. “Before and after transformations in the commercials made it an easy sell.”

Kaidanian recalls that SlimFast’s most recognizable slogan was, “A shake for breakfast, a shake for lunch, and then a sensible dinner.”

“They also advertised heavily in women’s magazines, which also made their way into the homes of Americans,” she explains.

But women weren’t SlimFast’s only targets. Legendary Los Angeles Dodgers manager Tommy Lasorda endorsed the brand, for example.

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“The constant advertising made it a brand that felt trustworthy to many with little risk involved,” Kaidanian says. “Its biggest selling point was that it took the thinking out of dieting in a time where diet-culture was everywhere. SlimFast was easy to follow and portion-controlled and overall convenient.” 

The convenience factor was a major draw for another core part of SlimFast’s target customer base.

“The plan also appealed to busy workers, parents and people who wanted a clearly defined program without extensive meal preparation,” Katz tells Parade. “Consumers could drink a preportioned shake instead of deciding what to prepare, how much to serve and how many calories it contained.”

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Why Did SlimFast Decline?

The “pre-prepared weight loss food” space got a lot more crowded as time went on.

“SlimFast did well when they had no competition,” Kaidanian says. “Now, there are tons of competitor brands that offer similar products to SlimFast but do a better job with branding.”

For instance, she points out that other brands aren’t selling “meal replacers” or “plans.”

“Their ready-to-drink shakes are pretty similar, only they are selling as a ‘high protein shake,'” Kaidanian explains.

The marketing copy is important—times have changed.

“There has also been a broader cultural shift away from products overtly associated with ‘dieting’ and quick-fix weight loss,” Katz tells Parade. “SlimFast remains strongly connected to an earlier era of fad diets, while many consumers today respond more positively to language involving strength, metabolic health, wellness and sustainable habits.”

Additionally, Kaidanian shares that other brands have done a better job marketing products similar to SlimFast’s as “cleaner,” which aligns with current trends and priorities in diet and wellness.

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Is SlimFast Still Around?

SlimFast still exists today. You can find it online and in major U.S. retailers, though Katz notes that selection varies by door and location.

“Heartland Food Products Group, the company behind Splenda, acquired the U.S. SlimFast business in September 2025,” she states. “SlimFast’s U.K. and European operations were acquired separately by Supreme PLC in October 2025.” 

The acquisition seems to have come with a branding shift.

“SlimFast appears to be trying to modernize its image by emphasizing protein, fiber and convenience rather than relying only on its original low-calorie diet message,” Katz explains. “Its current high-protein shakes provide 20 grams of protein and 5 grams of fiber per serving, aligning the brand with today’s strong consumer interest in protein and fullness.”

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Can SlimFast Make a Comeback?

Registered dietitians are cautious about SlimFast’s comeback prospects.

“I could see SlimFast making a smaller, modernized comeback, but it is unlikely to regain the cultural dominance it had during the 1980s and 1990s,” Katz says. “The brand still has substantial name recognition, and meal replacements can be helpful for people who want convenience, portion control or a structured way to create a calorie deficit.”

That said, the competition is fierce.

“SlimFast now competes with countless protein products, prepared meals, wellness programs and prescription medications,” Katz explains. “To become more relevant, it may need to move beyond its old ‘two shakes and a sensible dinner’ identity and present itself as a flexible nutrition option rather than a complete weight-loss solution.”

Kaidanian echoes similar sentiments.

“It will come down to their rebranding and advertising,” she states. “While many of my clients are still looking at convenience, as a dietitian, I always encourage real, whole foods and limiting or avoiding processed food products.”

Up Next:

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Sources:

• Johannah Katz, RD, a registered dietitian
• A Systematic Review and Meta-Analysis of the Effectiveness of Meal Replacements for Weight Loss. Obesity Reviews.
• Eleana Kaidanian, RD, CDN, CPT-WFS, a registered dietitian and the owner of Long Island Nutritionist
• Diet Company Ads Are Mixing Fame With Physique : Marketing: Celebrity endorsements have helped boost profits–and also fattened the wallets of some slimmed-down stars. Los Angeles Times.
• Heartland Food Products Group, manufacturer of SPLENDA BRAND, acquires SLIMFAST US brand. Reuters.

To solve today’s NYT Mini Crossword puzzle, brush up on legendary music solos, pickle ingredients, British terms, choir voices, soccer abbreviations, woodworking tools, personal disputes, the Golden Rule and classic comic-book sound effects, among other things.

Working on the daily Connections, Connections Sports Edition, Wordle, and Strands is a whole ritual for many of us. And we can’t forget about the NYT’s The Mini Crossword, too!

Although the NYT is known for “The Crossword,” a larger puzzle for paid subscribers, The Mini has quite the fan following as well. This particular game resets at 10 p.m., unlike some of the others that start over at midnight.

So, if you’re working on today’s Mini Crossword on Wednesday, August 19, and need some help (I’ve been there), get ready to read the clues and solutions for each line. We have them separated into hints first for both “Across” and “Down” words, followed by “Across Answers” and “Down Answers,” so be careful if you want to avoid spoilers as you scroll!

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Hints for NYT’s The Mini Crossword on Wednesday, August 19, 2026

Here are additional clues for each of the words in today’s Mini Crossword.

NYT Mini Across Hints

1 Across: Instrument with an iconic solo in Phil Colins’s “In the Air Tonight” — HINT: Starts with the letter “D”

5 Across: It’s in a pickle — HINT: Ends with the letter “E”

6 Across: Elevators, in British English — HINT: Starts with the letter “L”

7 Across: Certain choir voices — HINT: Starts with the letter “A”

8 Across: Sports org. for the Chicago Fire and New York Red Bulls: Abbr. — HINT: Ends with the letter “S”

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NYT Mini Down Hints

1 Down: Carpentry Tool — HINT: Starts with the letter “D”

2 Down: Personal fallouts — HINT: Ends with the letter “S”

3 Down: “Do ___ others …” (starts of the Golden Rule) — HINT: Starts with the letter “U”

4 Down: — Pickle — HINT: Ends with the letter “S”

5 Down: “Kapow!” — HINT: Ends with the letter “M”

Answers to NYT’s The Mini Crossword for Wednesday, August 19, 2026

Don’t go any further unless you want to know exactly what the correct words are in today’s Mini Crossword.

NYT Mini Across Answers

1 Across: Instrument with an iconic solo in Phil Colins’s “In the Air Tonight” — DRUM

5 Across: It’s in a pickle — BRINE

6 Across: Elevators, in British English — LIFTS

7 Across: Certain choir voices — ALTOS

8 Across: Sports org. for the Chicago Fire and New York Red Bulls: Abbr. — MLS

NYT Mini Down Answers

1 Down: Carpentry Tool — DRILL

2 Down: Personal fallouts — RIFTS

3 Down: “Do ___ others …” (starts of the Golden Rule) — UNTO

4 Down: — Pickle — MESS

5 Down: “Kapow!” — BLAM

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Whether you’re heading off to college or already making a list of fall projects around the house, having a few basic tools nearby can save you from digging through the garage every time. Walmart’s Kelvin 17-In-1 Urban Multitool packs a surprising number of functions into one compact gadget, and the black version is currently just $15, down from $33. It also comes in six other colors, with the black/pink and purple versions also priced at $15.

The 17-in-1 design includes 13 interchangeable screwdriver bits, including four Phillips, three Torx, three flathead, and three Allen key options. It also has a built-in LED flashlight, liquid level, 3-foot tape measure, hammering surface, and magnetic bit holder. The screwdriver can lock at a 90-degree angle, and the whole multitool weighs just over half a pound.

Kelvin 17-In-1 Urban Multitool, $15 (was $33) at Walmart

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Instead of keeping a separate screwdriver set, tape measure, level, and flashlight nearby, you get all those functions in one compact tool, which makes it especially useful for a dorm room or apartment with limited storage space. It could help with assembling furniture, tightening cabinet hardware, measuring for wall decor, or checking whether a shelf or picture frame is level.

One shopper rated the multitool five out of five stars and wrote, “This was a gift, and it was a hit!” Another said it’s a “great screwdriver set!” and liked how many different functions were included. However, that reviewer did note that the bits can be difficult to remove from their storage slots, so that may be worth keeping in mind if you plan to switch between bits often.

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One occasion where this could really earn its keep is during a move, when there always seems to be furniture to assemble, hardware to tighten, or something that needs a quick fix. Afterward, it’s compact enough to keep in a drawer for loose cabinet handles, wobbly chairs, crooked frames, and other small jobs that pop up around the house.

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If college move-in, fall decorating, or a few home projects are on your calendar, now is a great time to grab the Kelvin 17-In-1 Urban Multitool while it’s just $15. It’s a super easy way to keep a lot of everyday tools within reach without making room for a bulky toolbox, so be sure to snag it while your favorite color is still in stock. 

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More than three decades after Nirvana released their 1991 album Nevermind, its lasting legacy continues to leave an indelible mark on music history.

Propelled by the popularity and massive success of their standout track “Smells Like Teen Spirit,” the record was named by Consequence as the greatest sophomore album of all time.

Based on the 2026 ranking released by the outlet, the list features the top 100 sophomore albums that made a huge presence in the music industry.

Described by Consequence as an “album of contradictions,” the record highlights a powerful and rebellious vibe while at the same time showcasing emotional depth and vulnerability.

Featuring Kurt Cobain, Krist Novoselic and Dave Grohl, Nirvana followed its 1989 debut album, Bleach, with Nevermind.

Dave Grohl, Kurt Cobain, Krist Novoselic of Nirvana for group photo.

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Through Nevermind, Nirvana helped bring Seattle’s grunge sound to a global audience, releasing standout tracks such as “Smells Like Teen Spirit,” “Come as You Are,” “Lithium” and “In Bloom” among others.

In 1992, Nirvana’s album dethroned Michael Jackson on the U.S. Billboard 200 chart, replacing the King of Pop’s blockbuster album Dangerous at No. 1 with their sophomore album.

Moreover, the album sold over 30 million copies worldwide, making it one of the best-selling albums of all time.

During the album’s 20th anniversary celebrations, bassist and co-founder Krist Novoselic admitted that they “had no idea what Nevermind was going to achieve.”

As for the inspiration behind the music, Novoselic spoke about the diversity of their songs and how they were inspired by fellow musicians.

“We had a pretty broad knowledge of music,” he told CBC Radio’s cultural affairs show Q. “We weren’t dogmatic punk rockers, even though we came out of the American hardcore scene. We loved the Beatles, the Rolling Stones, Led Zeppelin, Black Sabbath, Black Flag, Flipper, punk rock bands. It all came together and that’s what we have. The document of that is Nevermind.”

Decades after the band released the album, Nevermind continues to make Billboard history, spending its 700th non-consecutive week on the Billboard 200 in 2024 and becoming the ninth album to reach the milestone.

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Molly Yeh is a Food Network host and a bestselling author who recently teamed up with Anthropologie to release the most adorable kitchenware. While every item in the collection is so cute and stylish, this cake stand really takes the cake. (Sorry.) It has the most charming cottagecore look and can be used for so many different purposes, too.

Molly Yeh’s Wood Cake Stand is a pretty cottagecore addition to any kitchen. Constructed from sturdy, durable acacia wood, this cake stand has a deep brown finish that feels rustic, balanced by whimsical scalloped edges that add a bit of daintiness to the serving piece. This is really what gives it that cottagecore style. That said, this cake stand would work well in pretty much any home.

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When it comes to dimensions, this cake stand measures 6.5 inches in height and 11.5 inches in diameter, making it a generous size without being overwhelming.

While this cake stand is, of course, intended for serving desserts, it is also a versatile piece that can be used for decorative purposes. It’s honestly so beautiful, you’ll honestly want to keep it on display. You could use this on your coffee bar, as a fruit stand, and in so many other ways. You could even opt to use it in your bedroom as a jewelry stand, for your perfume and more. The options are pretty much endless.

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If you aren’t in the market for a cake stand at the moment, this is definitely something you could snag for a birthday gift for a baking enthusiast or as a wedding gift for a happy couple.

Anthropologie customers are loving this acacia wood cake stand, giving it an average rating of five stars on Anthropologie.com. Fans appreciate it for its cutesy design and cottagecore aesthetic.

“Super cute!” said one happy shopper in a five-star review on Anthropologie’s website. “Goes very well with my cottagecore home!”

You can find Molly Yeh’s Wood Cake Stand on Anthropologie.com or in select Anthropologie stores. It retails for $78.

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In the 2000 movie Remember the Titans, Hayden Panettiere portrayed Coach Bill Yoast’s football-obsessed preteen daughter, Sheryl.

Just 10 years old at the time, Panettiere was perfectly cast as the outspoken tomboy, and the movie launched her career. Sadly, Panettiere died on August 16, 2026, at the age of 36 due to a “reported cardiac arrest.”

Now, fans are looking back at Remember the Titans and drawing parallels between Panettiere’s death and the death of her on-screen character in real life.

This is because Yoast also died suddenly in 1996 from an undetected heart condition at 34 years old — just a couple of years younger than Panettiere.

While promoting the film, Panettiere spoke about Yoast’s death, displaying her maturity at such a young age.

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“The character that I play, Sheryl, she died at 35 of heart failure, and when we heard that, we were just shocked, me and my mom,” Panettiere said in an interview.

Yoast, who was buried in Virginia, was survived by her three sisters, Bonnie, Angela, and Deidre. She was also married at the time of her death.

Fans were shocked by the similarities in their deaths. “Sheryl Yoast died in 1996, making them exactly 20 years apart,” one person commented on TikTok. Another added, “It’s like god was showing her future.”

Panettiere was found unresponsive in an apartment in South Carolina on Sunday, August 16, and her autopsy was completed the following day. However, her cause of death remains under investigation amid reports of an overdose and Narcan being found on the scene.

“At autopsy, no signs of trauma were discovered that would have contributed to the death,” coroner Mike Ellis said in a statement. “The cause and manner of death remain pending further investigation and the completion of additional studies. This investigation remains active and ongoing. No further details are available for release at this time.”

Whoever eventually replaces Jeff Probst on Survivor shouldn’t expect to follow in his footsteps too closely.

The longtime host and executive producer, 64, opened up about the show’s eventual future without him during a new interview with The Wall Street Journal shared on Tuesday, August 18. While Probst made it clear retirement isn’t currently on his mind, he does have one hope for whoever eventually takes over: Don’t try to be the next Jeff Probst.

“This is not on my agenda, but when the time comes to hand over the stewardship of the show, I will be very excited to do it,” he told the outlet.

Rather than finding someone who can recreate what he has brought to the competition since its 2000 debut, Probst wants his successor to put their own stamp on it. “My hope would be that the next steward of Survivor is somebody completely different from me because then, you get a different point of view that’s going to guide this ship,” he explained.

For anyone worried that handoff could be coming soon, Probst also offered some reassurance, saying, “I am as engaged with Survivor, as you and I are speaking today, as I ever have been.”

Fans had their own opinions in the comments of an Instagram post sharing Probst’s comments.

“Why is no one saying Devens?!?! He’s still young, he’s a fan favorite AND he has experience in the field,” one fan wrote.

“Not a single person the show will have to just end,” another quipped.

A third commented, “If it’s going to be a Rob from this show, it has to be Rob C! He knows this game inside and out, and would do the role justice.”

“Listen, Jonathan Penner would be awsoume !” declared a fourth.

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Probst has previously admitted the list of people he believes could take over is pretty short. When The Wrap asked him in June which former Survivor contestants might be capable of hosting, Probst didn’t name a specific successor. Instead, he explained that whoever gets the job would need to bring much more than on-camera charisma. “It’s a very, very, very small list,” he said.

According to Probst, the key is finding “a producer who can host,” rather than simply hiring a television personality. “I was never just a host,” he explained.

It makes sense considering Probst’s own trajectory. After hosting Survivor from its first season in 2000, he became a producer in 2003 and eventually took on executive producer and showrunner duties in 2010.

With Season 51 premiering in September, however, Probst isn’t ready to pass that torch just yet.

The Zombies were easily one of the most influential bands of the 1960s, and their debut hit, 1964’s “She’s Not There,” is still one of the decade’s defining songs. But by the time the group was recording their second album, the critically acclaimed Odessey and Oracle, they were already thinking about breaking up.

Recorded at Abbey Road studios in 1967, directly after the recording of the Beatles’ Sgt. Pepper’s Lonely Hearts Club Band, Odessey and Oracle pretty much flopped when it was released in the U.K. in 1968. Consequently, by the time the album came out in the U.S. a year later, the Zombies had already disbanded (which was a shame, because “Time of the Season” ended up being a huge success).

It was actually another song on Odessey and Oracle that the band expected to be a big hit: “Care of Cell 44,” a love letter from the narrator to his girlfriend in prison.

“It just appealed to me. That twist on a common scenario, I just can’t wait for you to come home to me again,” songwriter Rod Argent told Mojo magazine in 2008.

Argent also took advantage of a groundbreaking instrument left behind in the studio by one of the Beatles.

“John Lennon had left his Mellotron in the studio and I used it,” Argent told Sound on Sound.

“I thought it was great,” he continued. “The thing is, I initially thought, Well what a great way of being able to put an orchestra onto something. But of course it’s very different to that and much more in a way because its own signature sound made it much less middle-of-the-road. The quality of it just being sampled on tape, the strange sort of overtones that gave to the sound, were a huge bonus really. They made it sound terrific.”

It came as an unpleasant surprise when “Care of Cell 44” didn’t make the charts, as singer Colin Blunstone explained in an interview with Songfacts.

“It’s a wonderfully crafted song. I think it’s got an incredible lyric, wonderful chord sequences and a great melody — it’s just got everything.”

Unfortunately, listeners didn’t seem to agree with Blunstone.

“We tried to promote ‘Care of Cell 44,’ but there was no positive reaction,” bassist Chris White recalled, adding, “It was downhill from then on.”

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Even if “Care of Cell 44” was a commercial flop at the time, in the years since its release, it’s gained appreciation from fans and critics alike. Pitchfork ranked the track at #98 on a list of “200 Greatest Songs of the ’60s,” with John Motley calling it “the sunniest song ever written about the impending release of a prison inmate.”

“At the end of the first ineffably sing-song verse, Colin Blunstone tells his sweetie, ‘You can tell me about your prison stay’ — and sounds positively tickled,” Motley continued. “To be fair, describing the song’s lush arrangement and ecstatic melodies as ‘sunny’ is a vast understatement. Every time Blunstone belts out, ‘Feels! So! Good! You’re coming home soon!’ after the lull of a Beach Boys–style multi-part harmony, it sounds like his heart’s burst with joy.”

While the Zombies likely would have preferred for “Care of Cell 44” to have been a chart-topper back in the ’60s, at least the song is finally getting its due.

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Fall decorating is all about creating a warm, inviting feeling at home. You do not need to fill every surface with seasonal items to make a space feel festive. One statement piece can do a lot of the work. A set of pumpkins by the fireplace, in an entryway or beside a dining-room buffet can instantly make a room feel ready for crisp evenings, cozy gatherings and Halloween fun.

The best seasonal decor is not only pretty when it is displayed. It should also be practical enough to use year after year and easy to put away once the season ends. That is why larger decor pieces that collapse or nest together are always a smart buy, especially if you are short on closet or attic space.

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Member’s Mark Iron Pumpkin Set With LED Candles, $79.98 at Sam’s Club

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Sam’s Club’s Member’s Mark Iron Pumpkins with LED Candles come in a set of three for $79.98. The decorative pumpkins are made from iron and include warm, flickering LED candles that create the look of real candlelight without an open flame. The set is designed for indoor use and works for both harvest and Halloween decorating.

The three pumpkins offer a layered, statement-making display. The largest measures 24 inches long, 18.5 inches wide, and 25.5 inches high; the medium pumpkin measures 14.6 inches by 20.2 inches high; and the smallest is nine inches by 14 inches high. Together, they give you enough height and dimension to style a mantel, entryway, hearth, dining-room corner, or covered indoor porch.

Each pumpkin includes an LED candle with an automatic timer. Once set, the candles run for six hours and switch off for 18 hours, repeating the cycle daily. That means you can enjoy a cozy glow each evening without having to remember to turn the lights on and off. The set includes all nine AA batteries needed to get started.

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The biggest practical feature may be the collapsible design. After fall is over, the iron pumpkins can be disassembled and folded flat for storage, rather than taking up the same large footprint they do when displayed. Assembly is required, but Sam’s Club reviewers describe the setup as easy.

The set has a 4.6-star rating based on eight reviews. Shoppers say the pumpkins feel larger, sturdier, and more substantial than expected, and several specifically praise the flickering candle effect and convenient storage design.

At $79.98, this is more of a statement decor purchase than a small seasonal accent. But considering that it includes three oversized iron pumpkins, LED candles, batteries, timers and a storage-friendly design, it is a piece you can bring out every autumn for years to come.

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America’s Got Talent Live Shows began tonight with judges Simon Cowell, Mel B, Howie Mandel and Sofia Vergara turning over the voting results to America with one exception. Each week one of the four judges will be given the chance to select one act to go straight through to the finals by pushing the Live Golden Buzzer, while America’s vote will determine the three acts that go into the semifinals.

On night one, it was Howie who got to pick from the eleven artists — Ashford Sanders, Brook Lynn, Cris Sosa, Hundred Fingers, James & Marina, Jesse White Tumbling Team, Luke Taleno, Olivia Befus, Royal Lasers, Sando, and The CommUNITY ATL Choir — competing.

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He chose Hundred Fingers, a magic act from Seoul, South Korea, led by Yu Hojin, a magician who appeared on Season 17 of America’s Got Talent, finishing in the Bottom 6 of the Top 11. Yu returned for Season 21 with an all-new act because he felt that he had more to offer, especially wanting to prove to Simon that he could do something bigger.

“I wanted to create a magic super group, something that had never been seen before,” Yu said. “And that’s exactly what I created.”

Hundred Fingers succeeded in winning Howie’s Golden Buzzer during this season’s auditions, but the job is not yet done. Yu wants to win the whole thing.

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“Now we have huge pressure to do better,” Yu said. “We practice and we rehearse many hours – 15 hours six days a week. We are pushing ourselves to the limit. I want redemption. That’s why we are here.”

And the hard work paid off with Howie given a second Golden Buzzer to Hundred Fingers, this time one that takes them all the way to the finale.

“That’s the best thing I’ve seen. One word, magic,” Howie said. Then he added, “I wanted to press the Golden Buzzer. I wanted to press everything. That was a winning performance right there. That could have been a final performance. That was a million-dollar performance.”

America’s Got Talent airs Tuesday nights at 8 p.m. ET/PT on NBC. Streams next day on Peacock.

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A song recorded by a 20-year-old singer from Kentucky has earned a place among Billboard‘s 100 Best Country Songs of All Time.

The song is “Why Not Me” by The Judds, the country duo made up of Wynonna Judd and her mother, Naomi Judd. Billboard ranked the 1984 hit at No. 43 on its staff-picked list of the greatest country songs.

When “Why Not Me” was released in September 1984, Wynonna Judd was 20 years old.

The song became an important early hit for The Judds. In December 1984, it became the duo’s second consecutive No. 1 single on Billboard’s Hot Country Songs chart. “Why Not Me” also received major awards, winning Song of the Year at the 1985 ACM Awards, Single of the Year at the 1985 CMA Awards and a Grammy for Best Country Performance by a Duo or Group With Vocal in 1986.

Naomi and Wynonna Judd of The Judds at the ACM Awards, Los Angeles, 1985.

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“Why Not Me” was written by Harlan Howard, Sonny Throckmorton and Brent Maher. Maher also produced The Judds’ album of the same name.

The song was released in September 1984 as the title track and lead single from the duo’s first full-length studio album. The album, Why Not Me, was later released on Oct. 15, 1984.

In her 1993 autobiography, Naomi Judd said the song had “one of the strongest melodic hooks I’d ever heard.”

Billboard highlighted the song’s musical details. Bandleader and guitarist Don Potter created the guitar licks that Naomi Judd described as “a little slice of heaven.” The publication pointed to the song’s story of wanting love, along with the vocal work and gentle harmonies between Wynonna and Naomi.

The sound of those harmonies helped The Judds stand out during the 1980s. Wynonna sang lead, while Naomi provided harmony vocals.

The title track became part of a larger run of success for the duo. The Why Not Me album also produced the No. 1 hits “Girls Night Out” and “Love Is Alive.” The album reached No. 1 on Billboard’s Top Country Albums chart and later received a 2× Platinum certification in the United States.

The Judds had already reached No. 1 with “Mama He’s Crazy” before “Why Not Me” arrived. The new single became their second consecutive chart-topper and helped begin an even bigger stretch of success.

Wynonna and Naomi Judd both had Kentucky roots. Naomi was born in Ashland, Kentucky, while Wynonna was born in Kentucky on May 30, 1964.

The family moved to Los Angeles in 1968 but returned to Kentucky in 1976, where Naomi continued raising Wynonna and her younger daughter, Ashley. It was during those years that Wynonna and Naomi developed their connection through music and harmony singing.

Naomi later recalled how listening to bluegrass singers helped her realize what she and Wynonna could do together. 

“As these women harmonized together, it came to me: Wynonna and I couldn’t talk to each other, but, low and behold, we could sing together,” she said, per PBS.

The mother and daughter eventually moved to Nashville to pursue a record deal. Their efforts paid off in 1983 when RCA Records signed them after an audition.

The Judds released six studio albums between 1984 and 1990 and scored more than 20 singles on Billboard’s country charts, including 14 No. 1 hits. The duo also won five Grammy Awards and nine CMA Awards.

Their career as a full-time duo ended in 1991 after Naomi was diagnosed with Hepatitis C and stopped touring. Wynonna then began a successful solo career and later reunited with her mother for several performances.

Naomi Judd died in 2022, one day before The Judds were inducted into the Country Music Hall of Fame.

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Getting organized doesn’t have to mean filling your home with boring, clear bins or bulky furniture. The best storage finds are the ones that help keep everyday clutter under control while still looking like they belong in your space. Whether you are moving into a dorm, refreshing a bedroom, organizing an entryway, or simply trying to make more room at home, a good storage solution can make a huge difference.

Larger storage pieces are especially useful because they give you a place to put the things you need but do not want out all the time. Think extra blankets, shoes, seasonal clothes, college supplies, sports gear, pet items or garage tools. Instead of letting those items pile up in corners or take over a closet, a roomy footlocker makes it easier to keep everything contained.

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Brightroom Foot Locker, $30 at Target

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Target’s Green Foot Locker from Brightroom is a useful organization find that adds a little color to practical storage. Priced at $30, the foot locker holds 22 gallons and offers enough space for everything from clothing and throws to shoes and household tools. The green color gives it a more playful, stylish look than a typical storage tote.

The foot locker measures 31.25 inches long, 17.88 inches wide, and 13.88 inches high. Its low, wide shape makes it a great option for sliding under a bed, placing at the foot of a dorm bed, storing in a closet, or keeping in a garage or mudroom. It is made in the USA from polypropylene plastic and weighs 7.33 pounds when empty.

Two latches secure the lid to the base, helping protect the contents from dust and dirt. It also has a side handle for carrying, plus two built-in wheels that help you position or slide it more easily when it is full. That makes it especially convenient for students moving into a dorm or anyone who needs flexible storage that can move from room to room.

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One important detail to know: while the latches keep the lid fastened, Target says the footlocker is not waterproof, airtight, or bug-proof. It is best for general household storage rather than keeping items safe from moisture or pests in an unfinished basement, outdoor shed, or humid environment.

At $30, this Brightroom foot locker is an affordable way to gain a lot of concealed storage without buying a large cabinet or dresser. It has a five-star rating from its first two Target reviews, with one shopper simply calling it “great storage.”

If you need a sturdy place for the extras taking over your room, this green footlocker is an easy solution. It is functional, portable, and cute enough that you will not mind leaving it out in plain sight.

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Football season is almost here, and that means weekends packed with friends, outdoor gatherings, and plenty of tailgate parties. If you are looking to take your game day setup to a new level, the MinnARK Sports LED Portable Pong Table might just be your secret weapon. 

Now available at Walmart for $60, half off its usual price, this table has become a popular choice for anyone who wants to add some serious fun to their pre-game or backyard festivities.

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This pong table is built for tailgating. The nearly eight-foot-long table folds up for easy transport, complete with locking latches and integrated carry handles. Set up is quick and hassle-free, so you can focus on the fun rather than fumbling with equipment. The sturdy construction is more than capable of handling the competitive energy of a close game and excited fans.

The real game changer is the built-in cooler bag right in the center of the table. You can keep your sodas, waters, or other cold beverages within arm’s reach rather than running back and forth from a car or separate cooler, so the party never has to pause. The cooler comes with a lid, making it easy to keep everything chilled and organized throughout the game.

“The setup was super easy,” one shopper stated. “The cooler in the middle is top-tier and is definitely recommended for all beer pong tables.”

For evening tailgates or parties that stretch past sunset, the built-in red and blue LED light strips offer three different modes: steady, slow blink, and fast blink. Paired with the included glow-in-the-dark ping pong balls, these lights keep the energy high and the game going long after the sun goes down. The built-in cup holders help keep every shot steady, even on uneven ground, and reduce spills during those nail-biting rounds.

When the game is over, cleanup and storage are a breeze. The table folds down quickly and locks in place for safe transport. Its lightweight design makes it easy to carry, so you can easily take it from your backyard to the stadium parking lot or even to the beach for an impromptu tournament.

“The table itself is awesome. It’s easy to set up and looks amazing with the LED lights. They really add a cool vibe to the game nights,” one reviewer wrote. “Definitely worth it if you’re looking to spice up your entertainment setup.”

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With hundreds of positive ratings and plenty of fans already adding it to their carts, the MinnARK Portable Pong Table is shaping up to be the must-have accessory for football season. It brings together all the elements of a great tailgate, making every gathering one to remember.

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Even though it has been 47 years, we are still feeling the heat, riding the boogie and sharing that beat of love.

Michael Jackson’s song, “Rock with You,” reached an exciting milestone this past week. The 1979 classic, the second track of the late singer’s fifth studio album, Off the Wall, hit one billion streams on Spotify and was added to the streamer’s “BILLIONS CLUB” playlist on Tuesday. This is his fifth song to reach over one billion listens.

Seven other songs, including Olivia Dean’s “So Easy (To Fall In Love)” and “Crawling” by Linkin Park, were also added to the playlist on Tuesday alongside “Rock with You.”

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Jackson was just 20 years old when he recorded “Rock with You” and its accompanying album. The song was written by Rod Temperton, who penned multiple of Jackson’s best hits, including “Thriller” and “The Lady in My Life.” The track was produced by Quincy Jones.

“Rock with You” was originally supposed to go to Karen Carpenter, who at the time was working on her first solo album, but she declined it. Carpenter, one half of the soft-rock duo the Carpenters she formed with her brother Richard, loved working with Temperton. He originally offered Carpenter “Rock with You” and “Off the Wall” and showed rough demos to her, but she declined them because “they were too funky for her taste.”

The song ended up being a huge success, reaching the top spot on multiple US pop and R&B charts, and spending four weeks at No. 1 on the Billboard Hot 100. Considered one of the last hits of the disco era, “Rock with You” was the fourth biggest single of 1980 and was added to Rolling Stone‘s list of the “500 Greatest Songs of All Time” in 2021.

Michael Jackson at the 1994 Grammy Awards with producer Quincy Jones.

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Jackson was one of the most influential entertainers in music history, earning the nickname the “King of Pop” for his groundbreaking music, choreography, music videos he called “short films” and performances. Born in 1958, Jackson first found fame as a member of the Jackson 5 before launching his solo career as a teenager. His 1979 album Off the Wall established him as a major solo star, while albums including Thriller, Bad and Dangerous cemented his global legacy. Off the Wall ultimately sold more than 22 million copies worldwide and won Favorite Soul/R&B Album twice at the American Music Awards in 1980 and 1981.

Interest in Jackson’s music received another major boost following the release of the biopic Michael in April, which stars his nephew Jaafar Jackson. The film’s opening weekend prompted a 95% increase in US streams of Jackson’s solo catalog compared with the previous weekend, according to Luminate data reported by The Associated Press. His catalog earned 31.7 million streams on April 24 and 25, compared with 16.3 million the weekend before. The resurgence continued beyond opening weekend and throughout the spring, with Jackson’s catalog reaching 137.5 million on-demand streams in the United States between April 24 and 30 — up 146% from the previous week.

Four months after the release of Michael and 17 years after Jackson’s death, the “Smooth Criminal” singer boasts over 96 million monthly listeners on Spotify.

Michael Jackson performs in concert circa 1986.

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Nearly five decades after its release, “Rock With You” continues to prove why Jackson’s music has remained such an enduring part of pop culture. From its original success on the charts to his resurgence on streaming platforms today, the song has found ways to reach listeners across generations. Jackson’s music has also experienced renewed interest following the release of his recent biopic, introducing longtime hits to audiences who may not have grown up with them.

While musical trends come and go, songs like “Rock With You” have that staying power that is difficult to replicate. Its latest streaming milestone is yet another reminder that, decades later, Jackson’s music still has plenty of life left in it.

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Aug. 18 will now forever harbor special meaning for NASCAR fans. Today marks the first Kyle Busch Day, a tribute to the two-time Cup Series champion who died unexpectedly last May.

At just 41, Busch’s death sent shockwaves through the racing world. After his sudden passing, which followed severe bacterial pneumonia that rapidly progressed into sepsis, the sport has continued to find ways to honor one of its most memorable drivers.

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So, today, NASCAR and the broader motorsports community are celebrating the generational talent and future Hall of Famer with 63 Cup wins on what is now Kyle Busch Day.

According to Motor Biscuit, via Yahoo Sports, the 8/18 date nods to the two numbers Busch made famous during his Cup Series career: No. 8 with Richard Childress Racing and No. 18 with Joe Gibbs Racing. His No. 18 was also famously associated with longtime sponsor M&M’s.

To further celebrate the day, NASCAR is also airing a marathon of Busch’s greatest moments on its streaming channel.

Nearly three months after Busch’s death, his family is also taking a moment to both celebrate the newly anointed day and remember their loved one.

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Taking to Instagram, Busch’s wife, Samantha Busch, posted a carousel of images, with each snap featuring one thing “that makes Kyle, Kyle.” The carousel includes wedding pics, candid selfies, racing shots, and more, and ends with three words: “One of one.”

“Today, on 8/18, we celebrate Kyle Busch Day ❤️,” she wrote in the caption. “The world knew Rowdy, the champion, the competitor, the bow, and that unmistakable personality. But I was lucky enough to know every side of Kyle, especially the ones the world didn’t always get to see.”

She continued, “How do you take almost 20 years of loving someone and somehow capture what made them them in eight slides? You can’t. There are a million little things that made Kyle who he was, and those little things are what I find myself missing the most. So today, I hope we celebrate all of Kyle. The things that made the world love him and the things that made the kids and I so incredibly lucky to call him ours.”

She concluded with, “There will never be another Rowdy, but more than anything, there will never be another Kyle. My best friend, my other half, the daddy to our babies and the person I thought I would grow old beside. I love you and miss every single piece of you. ❤️ #KyleBuschDay #ForeverRowdy”

Busch’s 11-year-old son, Brexton Busch, also shared a tribute on Instagram. In his carousel, he leaned into the No. 18 and what the numeral has meant to him his entire life. Across several images, Brexton explained how the simple 1-8 holds deep significance for him.

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“18. My favorite number not only because it’s my birthday, but also because I saw my dad kick everyone’s butt in it almost every week growing up,” he wrote in the caption. “I wanted to be just like him, and I chose to race it when I started racing. While I wanted to be like him, he wanted me to be better than him. He taught me everything he knows, worked on my cars, spotted me, and even raced against me 8 times while he drove the 8. He beat me more than I beat him, but he knew the score would be in my favor sooner rather than later. I know he is proud of me. 8.18 is a reflection of him and what he instilled in me. Every race is for him.”

Brexton began racing competitively in 2020 at age 5 in the Beginner Box Stock division at Millbridge and Mountain Creek Speedways. Just a month into his racing career, he nabbed his first official victory at Mountain Creek Speedway.

After his father’s death, the No. 8 took on even more meaning for the Busch family. Richard Childress Racing temporarily retired the number, saying that it would be reserved for Brexton when he’s ready to race in NASCAR, transforming the infinity-shaped number into a potential forever link between father and son.

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Have you been wondering “Why do I get so angry at my toddler?” or “How to handle parental guilt?” recently? Or maybe you’ve been googling what to do after losing your temper or how to apologize to your child? 

If so, first remember this: If you’re a mom or dad, you’ve lost your temper with your child, plain and simple. This doesn’t make you a bad parent but a human one. All parents (and people in general) get overwhelmed and emotionally dysregulated. They raise their voice sometimes. They say something they wish they hadn’t. It’s natural, understandable and common. 

What matters, and what truly affects the relationship and your child’s sense of self and perception of the world, is how you act after that “rupture.” 

There’s one golden response child psychologists recommend you implement afterward, and it’s not just a general apology. It helps children feel emotionally safe, both in the moment and in the future. It helps them realize that relationships will have tough moments, but that doesn’t mean the relationship is over or that either person is unlovable. 

Ahead, child psychologists explain the one thing parents should do after losing their temper (and how to do it), how skipping it can hurt your child’s inner voice, some empathy and a few tips that can prevent yelling in the first place.

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The Single Most Important Parenting Strategy: What Is ‘Repair’?

The most important strategy after a rupture is repair. 

“Repair is the opposite of pretending a mistake didn’t happen or promising it won’t happen again,” says Dr. Caroline Danda, PhD, a licensed psychologist with over two decades of clinical experience with children, teens and families. “It’s what you do when you identify there’s a problem, see what’s gone wrong and go through the process of making it right.”

It’s a healing, relational method that teaches children a life lesson, too. 

“Repair tells a child’s nervous system, ‘Our relationship is safe, even when we have hard moments,’” says Dr. Allison Brazendale, PsyD, a licensed clinical psychologist for children and families and the creator of the FLEXED Method, which informs her insights here. “It’s an opportunity to reconnect, strengthen trust and show a child that mistakes do and are not the be-all-end-all.”

Plus, for what it’s worth, they say that choosing to repair after yelling can help the relationship grow more than if there had been no rupture in the first place. 

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Why Letting a ‘Rupture’ Fester Damages a Child’s Inner Voice

A rupture may seem like a one-time argument, but for a kid, it can cause more intense and long-lasting problems. The psychological effects of yelling at kids are real. When kids hear an angry tone, see an upset facial expression or feel abandoned, they begin to wonder if they’re still safe. Basically, your emotional dysregulation dysregulates their emotions.

“Those subtle shifts can signal danger to their nervous system,” Dr. Brazendale explains. “As their brain moves into protection mode, anxiety rises, cognitive flexibility decreases and it becomes much harder for them to think clearly, solve problems or regulate their emotions.”

Dr. Danda agrees.

“No one is choosing to react badly,” she clarifies. “The brain has simply shifted into survival mode.”

Children begin to make inaccurate and harmful meaning out of the rupture, too. For example, when a parent feels overwhelmed and “acts out,” they may think “I’m too much,” “I’m bad” or “People leave when I have big feelings.” Then, they may feel shame, or like they’re misunderstood and unloved, Dr. Danda adds. They wonder if love is conditional. 

That’s where repair comes in. It interrupts and changes that narrative. 

“Instead of believing their emotions are too much for others, they learn that relationships are strong enough to hold big feelings,” Dr. Brazendale tells Parade. “Repair restores relational safety.”

Repair does the same thing for a child’s self-image.

“A child learns that having big emotions, or reacting badly in the moment, doesn’t make them a bad person,” Dr. Danda adds. 

If you’ve ever walked away without repairing, try not to worry too much, she continues. A missed repair doesn’t define your relationship with your child—it’s the pattern that matters 

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A 3-Step Guide to a Perfect ‘Repair’ (No ‘Buts’ Allowed)

A solid repair takes three steps, psychologists say.

1. Regulate yourself 

First, utilize coping skills to regulate your emotions so you can regulate your child’s.

“Take a minute to pause, catch your breath and settle before you try to talk to your child again,” Dr. Danda says. “Bonus: When you take a minute to pause, it also gives your child time to settle.”

Then, be mindful of what you’re going to say and how.

“Remind yourself to be flexible and switch your lens from viewing the behavior as ‘defiance’ and instead to ‘anxiety,’” Dr. Brazendale suggests. “Your tone, posture, pacing and facial expression communicate safety long before your words do.”

2. Take responsibility 

Next, acknowledge—to yourself and your child—what you did. Maybe you raised your voice, got frustrated, made a negative comment or even scared them a bit. 

“Avoid blaming your child or explaining away your behavior,” Dr. Brazendale says. “Taking responsibility models accountability while showing your child that mistakes can be acknowledged without shame.”

Dr. Danda adds an important reminder for the future: “You can label a behavior, but not the child.”

3. Restore connection

Last but not least, reconnect. Offer warmth, validation, presence and praise. Offer a hug, return to what you were doing together or just sit with them.

“You might say, ‘I’m sorry I yelled. I was overwhelmed, and that wasn’t how I wanted to handle it. We both have big feelings sometimes, and I appreciate you being flexible and hearing me out,’” Dr. Brazendale suggests.

If you do go back to the problem, do so mindfully.

“Sometimes it means going back to the original issue and problem-solving it together, more calmly this time,” Dr. Danda says. “Avoid spending too much time rehashing the rupture.”

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The main thing Dr. Brazendale hopes parents remember is this: “You do not have to be a perfect parent to raise a secure child.” 

You’re going to lose your patience and “mess up,” she says. You’re going to have days when you’re exhausted, overwhelmed and reactive. You’re human.

“Children are not looking for perfection,” she continues. “They need adults who are willing to come back after hard moments and show them that relationships are strong enough to recover.”

Both child psychologists “get it” and even have personal experience.

“Despite everything I know about parenting and child psychology as a child psychologist who does this day in and day out, there are plenty of times when I’ve lost it and didn’t handle things the right way,” Dr. Danda admits. “I didn’t always repair it the right way, either.”

She encourages you to settle down and figure out how to move through it rather than beating yourself up or avoiding the issue. 

Practical Steps To Stop the Yell Before It Starts

After a repair, you may wonder how to stop yourself from yelling in the future (or at least reduce its frequency). Child psychologists share tips on how to do so.

• Pause before responding. Take a breath, then respond mindfully and warmly.
• Regulate yourself by relaxing your body, taking a slow breath or splashing cold water on your face. Moving your body rhythmically also helps, whether it’s walking, washing dishes, pulling weeds or tensing and releasing your muscles.
• Tell your child when you need a minute to regulate so they don’t feel abandoned when you walk away.
• Notice your thoughts without judging or ruminating on them. Consider what you can control and what’s a fact versus a feeling.
• Ground yourself by paying attention to your senses.

By taking these steps and remembering what parenting rupture and repair looks like, you set yourself, your child and your relationship up well. 

“Every time you choose steady leadership over emotional reactivity, you are helping build the emotional flexibility your child will carry into adulthood,” Dr. Brazendale says.

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Sources:

• Dr. Caroline Danda, PhD, is a licensed psychologist with over two decades of clinical experience with children, teens and families.
• Dr. Allison Brazendale, PsyD, is a licensed clinical psychologist for children and families and the creator of the FLEXED Method, which informs her insights here.